Ottawa Women's Coach

I just decided to check the dictionary definition of love. Went online and found the following: warm attachment, enthusiasm, devotion; strong affection; affection based on admiration, benevolence or common interests; unselfish, loyal, benevolent concern for the good of another. You can also add: peace, joy, tenderness, playfulness, growth, respect, support, sharing, reciprocity, generosity of the heart.

Nowhere did I see: control, violence, insult, abuse, lack of respect, neglect, agression or pain, misery or tears and despair.

Does your love for yourself fit the former definition? Is that the way you are loved? YOU can choose differently.



Marguerite

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