Sunday, September 19, 2004
What's so scary about being adored?
"We deflect what we secretly crave."
Harville Hendrix
Coaching homework: Sit down in a quiet place and think about what happens inside you when someone gets close emotionally and expresses love. Use pen and paper to jot down the fears. And fear's number one job is to protect you. Except that fear does not know that 1) you are now a capable adult and 2) that this person is not the same one as the one who hurt you in the past.
Marguerite Tennier
The coach who wants to change the world
One Man at a Time
http://www.canadascoach.com
Harville Hendrix
Coaching homework: Sit down in a quiet place and think about what happens inside you when someone gets close emotionally and expresses love. Use pen and paper to jot down the fears. And fear's number one job is to protect you. Except that fear does not know that 1) you are now a capable adult and 2) that this person is not the same one as the one who hurt you in the past.
Marguerite Tennier
The coach who wants to change the world
One Man at a Time
http://www.canadascoach.com
